5.3 Communication Style—Relationship Centered
Delaine Quaresma and Katie Steneroden
Relationship-centered communication has become the more predominant and preferred method of communication by clients and veterinarians in recent years. This communication style focuses on animal care being a joint venture between the veterinarian and the client. Decisions are made by combining biomedical knowledge from the veterinarian with the lifestyle and social factors of the client.
This approach can help create lasting working relationships with O/A clients. O/A clients often indicate veterinary collaboration and communication as a factor of significant importance in their decision to work with a veterinarian (Steneroden, 2021). Moreover, they request that their veterinarians respect the knowledge of O/A farmers regarding O/A practices and treatments.
Scenario – Part 2
Now let’s revisit the Farmer Jane scenario
A relationship-centered approach to the previously described scenario would consider not just vibrio’s medical facts and requirements on a sheep farm but would also seek to incorporate some of the “why’s” and “how’s” involved in managing animal care. For example, why does Farmer Jane specifically ask about the placenta? Or what are the reasons Farmer Jane does not routinely vaccinate? Some issues are more complex than can be explained in this chapter, but but veterinarians can’t be sure of the underlying concerns unless they ask when it comes to client decisions. They cannot assume their motives or reasons. Communication in a relationship-centered approach with Farmer Jane might sound like this:
Take a minute to re-think the following questions:
- How do you think Jane will respond to the recommendations?
- Did the veterinarian learn more about Jane and her farm in this situation?
- Could more information improve the outcomes for everyone, including the animals in this situation?
- Think about your goals for this conversation and farm. Is this an effective way to communicate with them?
- Do you think Farmer Jane feels more considered and included in this approach?
The veterinarian is still medically correct in this second version of the scenario. However, approaching the conversation in a relationship-centered way prompted Jane to express her feelings and concerns more. In this situation, the veterinarian took the time to learn why Jane was not vaccinating her flock and her concerns about the placenta. As a result, the veterinarian may work with Jane to make some changes to improve her animals’ health. This style helps provide client empowerment, which can positively affect Jane’s likelihood to follow the vet’s recommendation and thus positively affect the animal’s involvement. In addition, Jane may be more likely to feel that this veterinarian can help her and her farm. Using a relationship-centered style is not about coercion, manipulation, or persuasion—but about working together—the goal might be a change of perspective for both the client and veterinarian, not a change of values.
Relationship-centered communication encourages collaboration and fosters a group approach toward resolving issues. Moreover, collaborative communication has positively changed client knowledge and initial beliefs about medications, client satisfaction with medication, and client use of prescribed/recommended medications (Shaw et al., 2004). This style is important and helpful in working with O/A clients or groups with various beliefs or goals to improve understanding and increase satisfaction for all parties. It is more likely to result in positive change and positive feelings associated with the interaction. There is no one-size-fits-all, and no one should expect the veterinarian to have all the answers. However, it is in the veterinarian’s best interest to work with all differences in opinions and beliefs. Clients learn from veterinarians, and veterinarians learn from clients. A team approach through relationship-centered communication fosters using the knowledge and skills of both parties. Staying open-minded in this process is good for personal and professional development and business, as this can be attractive to new clients and helpful in maintaining a good reputation.
Situational needs for different styles
There is no one-size-fits-all style that applies to every conversation. Effective communication depends on situational needs and should consider social factors and influences. Extenuating circumstances may influence which communication style is most effective in each situation.
Relationship-centered communication is the preferred communication style for veterinarian-client interactions. Under some circumstances, such as natural disasters, foreign animal diseases, animal health emergencies, or urgent animal welfare situations, time may not allow for the usual back-and-forth conversations of relationship-centered communication, and more direct action may be necessary.
Brief descriptions of risk communication and conflict resolution follow. Specific communication practices under emergency/disaster situations are beyond the scope of this chapter. However, engaging and working with those involved is part of the process, even in high-risk emergencies.